6 Ways to Ease Your Child's Fear of Moving to a New House

Moving with KidsBy Julie DeLong, A-1 Freeman Moving Group 

The idea of moving to a new residence is not always easy for youngsters to cope with. Young children and even older children can experience concern at the notion of moving, and not always for the reasons you could possibly assume. A number of youngsters are concerned about leaving their close friends, some fixate on the notion of moving to a different school. Some kids are fearful of the thought of moving to Atlanta far from the primary house they have actually known.

As numerous parents have realized, uprooting your kids and working with the consequences is not the most effective way to cope with uncertainties of moving or perhaps the sad feelings of leaving the old familiar community. Instead, the ideal way to address moving stress in your kids is to always address it during the lead-up while you're packing and preparing to move.

Here I will discuss our best tips concerning how to help your young child let go of their worries and perhaps get excited about the notion of moving to Atlanta.

Investigate the New House Over the internet

Offer your child a chance to begin thinking about exactly what it shall be like to reside in the new residence. A lot of youngsters are thrilled by new experiences and areas to explore. So, while talking about what it will be like to move, give your child a virtual tour of the area they will be going. Furthermore, you can start early by inviting them to assist you to select new homes to check out before the move is even scheduled.

Scan through the images together, point at rooms and features you like, and allow your youngster's imagination guide them onward. Make use of your perspective as a guide-point so your child understands that the new house is something to look onward to.

Explore the New House in Person

Bring your youngster on a tour of the new house, however not only as an vacant place. Without delay, get started talking about where your familiar furniture ought to go. Encourage your son or daughter to utilize their creativity in picturing what you can put in the new home and what can be accomplished with your totally new and unique area. Walk your son or daughter through 'their room' and picture exactly where their bed, toy box, and beloved playthings might go.

Talk About What's Wonderful About the New Spot

Far more necessary, speak about how wonderful the new place shall be through highlighting how it can be better than the house you will be exiting. If there's a giant backyard you did not have before, mention how you might check out the area animal shelter and adopt a family pet who could enjoy that backyard with your child. Should there be a new brother or sister or a baby on the way, discuss how the new house gives them more than enough room to be a caring older sibling. Keep your imaginings and promises reasonable so that if your child concentrates on one excellent future benefit of the house, you can make it materialize.

Make Packing Together into a Game

Seeing all the things packed up may disturb young children who feel as if you're packing away all of their lives into cartons. However not if you make it a game. Start with conveying how all your son's or daughter's cherished possessions will not be disappearing, but rather the professional movers in Atlanta are going to be transporting them to the new home to go in the spaces you envisioned together. Next encourage your child to help you pack and get their little hands active in the work.

In this way, you aren't 'taking' and 'hiding' their things, you are tidying up and packing with each other. Talk to your youngster regarding where each thing that is packed ought to go inside the new home to make sure they don't believe their cherished possessions are disappearing without them. Make certain to hold back a couple of comfort toys for traveling.

Introduce them to the Movers

In case a moving company in Atlanta will be a huge part of the event, then make sure your youngster is comfortable with the folks that will be moving their cartons of possessions. Young people might be afraid of the strange group of grownups which show up to carry cartons (and particularly should you have a packing service) until those movers officially become their pals.

Thankfully for many small children, friendship is usually a matter of "how-do-you-do's" and the official sharing of a cookie. Be pleasant and permit your son or daughter to introduce themselves to the professional movers to make sure they won't be reluctant as the truck is loaded and unloaded.

Invite Them to Help You Navigate

Some children's worry isn't centered on packing, but on the concept of traveling far away from their old residence. The road trip on its own may fill your youngster with stress, partially because they are terrified of getting lost, adrift from home, and out of control. An effective technique to help relieve this concern is to have your child feel like a responsible and engaged element of the excursion.

Hand your youngster your mobile phone with Google Maps open and charge them with aiding you to navigate. Ask them to point out when a turn is coming up and check in regarding how many miles to another turn. This makes your son or daughter feel grown-up as well as responsible and many young people will defeat their own nervousness to be helpful. By the time you reach the new residence, your son or daughter may just be peaceful and capable to face a new task as your partner instead of feeling powerless in a move that was not really their idea.

Be Patient and Preserve Family Schedules

Lastly, be prepared for a few emotional outbursts. Adolescent children might be resentful to go away from their buddies and younger kids could have difficulty adjusting, however they will ultimately adapt and begin enjoying themselves in the new home. The best thing that you can do after the move is to be patient with negative feelings and help your children settle back into familiar schedules.

Family meals, familiar schedules, and regular game nights may ensure your young ones that the most important elements concerning family life are still the same. Their lives haven't transformed fully, your home is simply somewhere brand new.

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The simplest way to help your children to decrease their fears of moving and adjust to the new house is to get started early. Get your kids involved with all the moving process and help them feel equally responsible for some aspects. This will reduce the sense of appearing 'out of control' and help your young ones resolve to be durable and hopeful concerning the new house. For further insights on moving, from packing the boxes to dealing with the stress, make contact with A-1 Freeman Moving Group in Atlanta today!

 

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